Handcrafted, Heartfelt, Green Weddings
But having a ‘green’ wedding can bring back that intimate communal foundation to your married life. Or even as a second “wedding”, you can step forward into a more real and heartfelt phase of your life together.
By symbolizing what is most important to you…and not cluttering the time with unimportant symbols, you communicate your inner beauty with those who love and nurture you as a family unit. Our actions speak louder than words in community celebrations…and your special day speaks volumes about who you are and what you stand for.
Here are some ideas to start you thinking and remembering and sharing…
THE INVITATIONPaper is a wondrous, simple craft that can start your “green” event off on a recycled foot.
You can easily make paper medallions to add a homespun touch to a simple traditional cardstock invitation, or make the entire invitation, envelop set from recycled paper. You can combine recycled office paper, junk mail, and grocery bags for the basic paper and water mixture…and then add grass cuttings, wildflowers, seeds, ribbons, or other symbolic ingredients to the sheets of recycled paper.
Recycled invitations that are processed without chlorine are another option. Encourage guests to recycle their invitations, or have seeds embedded in the paper so that guests can plant the invitations and enjoy the flowers that grow from them.
Use a reply postcard (no envelope) and forgo the inner envelopes-you'll save paper and money.
A small simple design or a self-mailer will use less paper…and less trees! Or use a more renewable resource such as Kenaf or rice paper.
A website can provide the details about your wedding-directions, hotels, other weekend events, to avoid having to print this information out for everyone. (and only print letters with this information for family and friends without Internet access.)
NATURAL AND OUTDOOR WEDDING LOCATIONSAn outdoor wedding at a favorite natural spot can add lush beauty and simplify your needs for commercial decorations. Your celebration will be there for future visits on anniversaries to remind you why and how you make a life together in your natural world. You can use the choice of location to make environmentally responsible choices that speak louder than glitz.
Holding your ceremony and reception at the same location is simple, comfortable and cuts the emissions that result from having your guests drive between the two.
A wide variety of natural locations are possible – which hold special significance for you and your honey? A park, a backyard, pasture, campgrounds, beach, or a garden…
WEDDING GARMENTSVintage dresses and tuxedos from resale clothing stores can promote recycling and reuse concepts….and bring a nostalgic touch to your extended family, as well as a unique experience for you as you travel back in time in such a tangible way.
Organic silk or hemp wedding dresses are just a couple of the new sustainable fabrics available. Recycled fabrics are another choice with patchwork quilting offering a handcrafted feel. I personally think it’s time we redesign the whole concept of the wedding dress – and a green wedding might be just the impetus to make sense out of the runaway industry.
Choose a simple dress and suit that you can wear again. Second marriages and renewal of vows seem to be more practical – but young people can make a strong statement with their choices to be eco-sensitive and sensible even during festive events.
The “I Do Foundation” brings a new twist to wedding celebrations: Learn how you can donate your wedding dress for charity at www.idofoundation.org. The I Do Foundation was created in 2000 by a group of nonprofit leaders dedicated to developing new avenues of support for charitable organizations by linking engaged couples with a host of charitable giving options at the wedding.
FOOD and DISHESSome caterers provide vegetarian and organic entrees, and simple serve-yourself buffets can provide outdoor convenience and fun, especially when favorite outdoor finger foods are included for children and fun loving adults.
Outdoor wedding and casual rehearsal dinner/weekend events for your guests, can be more eco-friendly by keeping the reduce, reuse and recycle concepts in mind:
Rent real glasses, dishes, and cloth napkins, to avoid using disposables
Biodegradable, compostable dishes and flatware made from cornstarch, sugar cane, or tropical leaves are new inventions that make a huge difference in the solid waste generated by parties.
WEDDING FLOWERSUse flowers from local and/or organic farms. Less transportation adds up…and supports your local community with jobs and sustainable farming resources.
Wildflower growers at your local farm market can supply bouquets & table arrangements.
Potted plants for centerpieces can then be given as gifts or enjoyed in your home. These potted plants are also wonderful take-away mementos for family and friends who aren’t up to attending the festivities.
RICE THROWING ALTERNATIVES
WEDDING GIFT ALTERNATIVESIf you are already settled into a home, and do not need kitchenware or furnishings, you may prefer to state on your invitations: "Please no gifts" or "Your presence is your gift to us", or recommend that guests donate to your favorite environmental group in honor of this special occasion. Some groups even carry out a shared eco-project during weekend festivities to contribute to the outdoor location’s health and wellbeing.
If you are establishing a new home, consider registering with an eco-conscious retailer to minimize receiving items from guests who aren't sure what you need, and might not be familiar with your green or eco-conscious preferences.
Gifts for the people participating in your wedding can be non-consumptive options like massage therapy gift certificates, useful gifts like organic gift baskets, handcrafted jewelry or local crafts, fair trade coffee and health food coop gift certificates, or 100% recycled gifts. Throwing birdseed is a good alternative to throwing rice ONLY if you are having a city wedding, or will be tossing birdseed in a landscaped yard. Most birdseed mixes contain non-native plants and throwing these seeds in a natural location such as a nature preserve or state park, can cause damage to the ecosystem.
Alternatives to rice and birdseed are throwing native (local) wildflower seeds or dried petals, ringing handballs, or blowing homemade bubbles from recyclable containers. Waving ribbon streamers can also provide a festive send-off.
WEDDING CEREMONY PROGRAMSYour order of service can be printed on 100% recycled PCW paper that has been processed without chlorine.
Let your guests know how important the environment is to you, and all the ways you have considered the earth in planning your wedding. Collect programs at the end of the ceremony and recycle them. Another simple idea is to have such a simple service that no program is needed! A sign at the entrance can explain logistics, and the officiant can provide verbal instructions during the ceremony.
WEDDING FAVORSYou can can consider creative ways to raise money for charity through your wedding favors, gift registry, and honeymoon.
Instead of favors, let your guests know in the program that you have donated honorariums for each guest to your favorite environmental organization .
Counteract the carbon dioxide being released into the atmosphere (contributing to global warming) by your guests traveling by plane or car to your wedding--by giving each guest an 11-watt compact fluorescent bulb as a favor. Each of your guests replacing a 50-watt incandescent bulb with their wedding favor will save 685 pounds of carbon dioxide.
Give a recycled handmade paper bookmark with wildflower seeds--this is a very useful gift, which can then be planted for even more enjoyment.
Give a small envelope of wildflower seeds to your guests.
Give tree saplings from the National Arbor Day Foundation at Arbor Day
Be creative with found materials. Make your own placecards by writing on dried leaves, or make your own ceremony programs (or covers) out of handmade paper.
HONEYMOONAt www.ecomall.com you can find a travel agent who can book a socially and environmentally sensitive trip, including “certified green hotels” that recycle and reduce the amount of unnecessary laundering, offer vegetarian menus, and can connect you with holistic and off the beaten path adventures as well as electric/hybrid car rentals.
Travel less. Shorter trips can be very relaxing and a cost and resource-effective way to kick off your married life. With travel being the security hassle it is these days, local eco-tourism options can be more relaxing for the budget and can provide you with a nearby memory-making location that you can visit during future anniversaries for respite and to rekindle your romance. New friends that are met at this location are an added bonus that can build your community together.
YOUR NEW LIFE TOGETHERPractice making sustainable choices in your daily life together. Simple things like organic bedding, compact fluorescent lightbulbs, low-water faucets and shopping at farmers markets can build a healthful homestead and create good habits that you build one at a time.
Invest in socially responsible companies when planning for your retirement and financial well being. And for the entrepreneurs in our midst, consider sustainable business processes when you look for that little extra job or hobby-turned-business.
Building a family is first about vision. Then about implementing that vision with joy and productivity. The result is a solid family base that serves as a haven in the midst of our tumultuous world, and your example will shine for all the people who visit your home, and share your interests, joys and communal table.
Southern California resources for green, hip and holistic weddings (and parties)Little things add up to help you feel you are at the least, trying to give back instead of constantly taking the resources around you for granted. It just takes some time and planning to do it the green way … and your own special way.
Organic WeddingsOrganic Weddings is the most comprehensive wedding planning resource for couples striving to live healthy, natural lifestyles with regard for our environment. Couples who make choices every day that are healthy and in balance with the environment should not have to set aside those ideals on their wedding day. Organic Weddings brings resources, products and services to busy, eco-aware brides and grooms, so they can plan beautiful, stylish weddings AND be earth-friendly at the same time.
California Recycling ResourcesRecycling programs for special events can be coordinated through your local government – city or county. The California Integrated Waste Management website can be of immeasurable help in locating the right folks for the job.
Wedding Planners & Coordinators
The range of services that a planner provides can vary from a la carte options to day-of coordinating, partial planning and full service. Some questions that you may want to ask yourself in deciding how much involvement you will need from a green wedding planner or coordinator are:
1. Do I have enough time to research sustainable event resources, interview vendors, and organize the details of planning a green wedding?
2. Am I confident in my abilities to protect my interests to leave a small footprint in the contract process?
3. Do I have enough support from friends and family to execute the special arrangements I have made on the day of the wedding?
While budget concerns or your low-key lifestyle may have you thinking that a wedding planner is either unattainable of unnecessary, it is important to realize that the job of the green planner is to save you time, money, and stress so that you can focus on enjoying yourself and the company of your guests in a beautiful green environment.
Southern CA Green Wedding Planner:
Rev. Bruce Danzara - Wedding Minister / OfficiantVisit this Orange County hub of wedding options serving the needs of engaged couples. Bruce is the father of two children and resides in Orange County. Bruce provides extensive online resources and a creative variety of services such as: Sand Blending, Hand Blessing, Rose Exchange, Mothers Rose Presentation, Unity Candle, Hand-Fasting, White Dove Release, Wine Ceremony, Breaking of the Glass, Butterfly Release www.4wed.net/
His “Locations” list includes a wild variety of natural settings as well as traditional in-door wedding and reception locations:
Sherman Library & Gardens is a botanical wonderland. Corona del Mar
Greenfield Paper CompanyGreenfield Paper Company’s handmade, recycled and alternative content paper cards offer various green options such as being plantable seed paper for a wildflower harvest.
Greenfield Paper Company
7196 Clairemont Mesa Blvd
San Diego, CA 92111
A tree-in-a-boxA tree-in-a-box comes in a little peat pot for a growing gift. Tree In A Box, in Mt Shasta, CA offers an evergreen favor selection: Tree In A Box
Seabreeze Organic FarmSeabreeze Organic Farm in San Diego specializes in creative green solutions such as organic coffee, tea, oils and herbs, fresh flowers from traditional roses to daisies, mixed bouquets and forget me nots… and naturally grown edible blooms. Couples can freeze organic, edible blossoms into ice cubes to accent water or drinks. Organic farms support fair wages, sustainable/organic agricultural practices, and lessen the impact on the environment.
Seabreeze Organic Farm
Organic BouquetEco-friendly flowers also can be found at Organic Bouquet, one of the innovators of organic production of flowers. Their options include traditional lilies and roses, as well as mixed bouquets, wreaths and gift baskets. Some of their flowers are sourced in California, or direct from international farmers.
Organic Bouquet, Inc.,
750 Lindaro Street, Suite 330
San Rafael, CA 94901
Jewelry classesWith jewelry classes available in most communities, crafting a couple’s wedding bands is quite feasible with some time and talent. The romance of gemstones and metals can be woven into the ceremonial exchange. Gemstones like Chalcedony, offer special meaning -- a Native American symbol of community joining together.
Light and fragranceEssential-oil candles and natural clay make a perfect combination to light up the ceremony or evening event with added fragrance (perhaps from Aroma Naturals in Irvine
Aroma NaturalsAroma Naturals are available at a wide variety of retail stores in Southern California.
17651 Armstrong Ave.
Irvine, CA 92614
949.263.1400 or 800.462.7662
Natural Locations:Calamigos Ranch is nestled on 130 acres in the natural beauty of the Santa Monica Mountains of Malibu, Calamigos Ranch is the perfect place to hold your wedding. to create an interesting and tasty menu sans meat, dairy and processed sugar. At Calamigos Ranch, 15 Indoor and Outdoor Banquet Facilities offer a variety of unique and special settings to accommodate groups.
327 S. Latigo Canyon Road
Malibu CA 90265
Do you have a special place …like RenFaire? A themed Renaissance Wedding at the Renaissance Pleasure Faire can be an outdoor wedding of your dreams. A wondrous Elizabethan atmosphere and setting, can be the setting for a private ceremony and reception site. The wedding garden has a beautifully decorated wedding arbor, shaded picnic style banquet tables, a dressing pavilion for the bride and her attendants, a white aisle runner, private privies, and seating for your guests. Aah, the creative possibilities for the wedding party and guests!
Mani’s BakeryMani’s Bakery in Los Angeles, which is cooking up a vegan caramelized apple cake and organic chocolate-dipped strawberries organic wheat or rice flour, and often use soy cream cheese icing, which can taste like either a cream cheese or butter cream. Mäni’s Bakery bridges the gap between gourmet and health foods with traditional gourmet desserts using unrefined sweeteners such as fruit juice reduction and real chocolate sweetened with barley malt. Wheat flour is organically grown to retain more of their natural nutritional value.
519 South Fairfax
Los Angeles, California 90036
Michele Coulon DessertierMichele Coulon Dessertier in La Jolla is known for their Gateau Aileen hot-milk sponge cake layered with organic berries grown by local farmers. They also offer options such as mini desserts, truffles and other delicious sweets to compliment a wedding. Crystallized edible flowers can be a finishing touch au naturel. Dessertier.com
Evo Limo ServiceThe first limo service in the US to deploy a fleet of luxury vehicles exclusively powered by clean, domestic alternatives to gasoline is Evo Limo Service in Los Angeles.
The nation's biggest hybrid car rental fleet, EV Rental Cars, a partner of Fox Car Rental www.foxrentacar.com. Fox rents their hybrids at six airports (LA, San Jose, Oakland, San Francisco, Orange County and San Diego)
GreenWeddings.netGreen Weddings provides wedding planning services from the Malibu coast to Los Angeles and work exclusively with local resources who use only sustainably-farmed and harvested foods, and no chemically-treated flowers. Their services include helping you connect with “green hotels” who recycle, save energy, use alternative energy sources. They often have their own organic gardens, compost and use biodegradable detergents. They give back to their communities and support local businesses.
Vintage WeddingsVintage wedding gowns and formal wear can date from the Victorian era through today. In addition to finding Vintage Wedding Gowns and Formal Wear, you will find Vintage Bridal Veils, Vintage Bridal and Formal Sewing Patterns, Victorian and Vintage Jewelry, Tussie Mussies, Victorian Hankies, Vintage Shoes and Boots, Purses, Parasols and More . . . VintageWeddings
Live MusicLive music supports both your memorable day and the local arts scene. Many quartets, bands and singers are available, such as The Mallette String Quartet who play Sinatra, Bach or the Beatles, music to fit any mood, occasion or celebration in Los Angeles, Ventura, Orange County, Santa Barbara and Southern California.
Another source of artists and musicians is LA Green Cafe: la.greencafe.com
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